The ejaculation is the man most synonymous with sexual pleasure. When the orgasm but for him - and for them - too fast entering of pleasure can be no more talk ...Learn more about this taboo subject! What is premature ejaculation?10 seconds? A minute? Three minutes? Before or during penetration? From what one can speak of a premature ejaculation? The time criterion is not sufficient to define the phenomenon. It is more likely with the concept of control or characterize the rather non-existent control. A man who does not suffer from this disorder can delay the ejaculation by the common desire to make experience last longerand increase the intensity of orgasm. When ejaculation is an uncontrolled and uncontrollable reflex is called a premature ejaculation (or a premature orgasm or premature ejaculation in Latin). Some men do more or less long a sex life without problems and then be suddenly confronted with these complaints. In this case, the premature ejaculation is known as "secondary". Conversely, a "primary" premature ejaculation involved if a man has always suffered from this sexual dysfunction. A common disorder that is usually tabooPremature ejaculation is not a disease as such, even if it is for the person concerned, of course, still a major handicap ... One third of the men is reportedly affected by the problem. But only 8% of them are willing to talk about the subject. Also, women are silent. For them, the dialogue is prevented because they feel guilty and their partners do not want to burden further. The consequences are frustration, misunderstanding and an internal blockade. These factors may become a serious relationship problem: With a third of the couples involved the premature ejaculation leads to a separation. Here are the causes of the disorder known and there is appropriate treatment options. The physical causesIt is rare premature ejaculation a physical cause is based. Nevertheless, the early orgasm e.g. be expose to a urethritis, with difficulties, the glans, or too short foreskin, which leads to a too rapid stimulation due. Dutch researchers have shown that the serotonin receptors in the central nervous system of premature ejaculation respond to a sufferer insensitive. This prevents the affected men from delaying the decisive moment. The psychological causesThe main causes can be explained psychologically. In the first sexual contacts ejaculation problems often occur because the fear is in front of a relatively large failure. More generally, the fear of disappointing their partner, and sexual performance pressure lead to a loss of control, especially when the man in front of an obviously very excited partnerhas.Although anxiety, stress and fatigue are the main causes of premature ejaculation, other factors also play a role. For example, rare sexual intercourse or a very strong emotional tension. Also relationship problems with your partner may be responsible for the difficulty in ejaculation. How do you deal with it? What can you do?l First you have to be made of the dialogue in the Partnership to be: The woman takes an important role because they must help her husband overcome his fear of a failure by him at ease.l Frequent sexual intercourse can help also help to delay ejaculation.l There are also two more intimate techniques to improve self-control of the man:> The "Stop-and-go technology" (including stop-start technique): The man concentrates on his feelings and perceptions signaled his partner to stop when he needs to move ... then there is a moment of total stop before it goes again!> The squeeze technique (squeeze (ie English) to compress): Just before the man feels that orgasm is imminent, the acorn extension (Frenulumbereich) is compressed so that the declines ejaculation tion penetrated. After a short break, the penis is stimulated again.l If these techniques fail professional help should be used. A joint consultation with a sex therapist is an important step to improve the situation: The doctor may prescribe antidepressants, for example, acting on the spinal cord and delay ejaculation until the right moment.
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